Your possibilities of getting into a hospice

A hospice will be offered to you if you have a lot of discomfort and problems due to a life threatening illness. Some people go to a hospice during their last stages and die there, but it is also possible to have a shorter stay to gain strength and to be discharged again, to go home or to a nursing home.

In order to stay in a hospice, most places need a referral by a doctor. The reference applies to all hospices in the country. Thereafter, the hospice will assess whether they have space. You don't pay for your stay. Relatives who stay at the hospice must pay for food.

A hospice typically has space for 12 patients in private rooms with en suite bathrooms. You can bring various things like photos, pictures, plants, music and perhaps even a pet and furniture (such as a chair) or anything that has a special meaning to you. You can use your own clothes - even if you are bedridden. Your loved ones can stay at the hospice, either in the same room as you or in a guest room.

There is typically a common room at a hospice, where patients and caregivers can eat, meet for a singalong, lectures and church services, etc. Several places have a shared venue that patients may use for private gatherings, such as birthdays, weddings or anniversaries.

Daily life at the hospice is quieter and different to a hospital. The days are planned according to your wishes and needs. You are given the nursing and care you need. The staff is well trained palliative care of very ill people. There is more staff in a hospice than at a hospital or a nursing home, as they need to have time for you and your particular needs.

If you are considering a hospice as an option, speak to your family about it so you can find the best solution together. Many hospices have an open house and will tell you about their services. You can also contact a hospice and ask whether you may stop by to see if the hospice might be an option for you one day.

It may also be a good idea to speak to your doctor or nurse about the pros and cons of hospices and other options. They can help to clarify which requirements you may have in the longer term. They will have experience in what may have helped other patients and families. Once you have decided, ask your doctor to note your wishes in your medical record, so the healthcare professionals know.